Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Letter

Family portrait

Reading through some of the Christmas letters we've already received, I was struck by how much can change in a year.  New houses, new jobs, new kids.  We haven't really been the best at keeping our friends up-to-date with what's been going on in our lives (I just checked and I haven't written an honest-to-goodness Christmas letter since 2007!), but rest assured that none of those big events have been happening to us, just people we know.  We've only experienced an accumulation of life's little shifts and changes that you don't necessarily notice day-to-day, but taken together add up to a pretty good year.

Alex is four years old and goes to preschool at the church around the corner (the same preschool his older brother attended at the same age).  He plays soccer, takes swim lessons, builds LEGO creations a kid twice his age would be proud of, and has developed an unhealthy preoccupation (dare I say obsession?) with Angry Birds in all its many forms.  Alex considers himself to be quite the young photographer, and has recently branched out into cinematography as well.


Evan is six, and is in 1st grade.  He really likes school, and is something of a teacher's pet (he inherited brains from both of us and Steph's joy of following the rules).  During his summer vacation Evan got to attend a few different week-long camps, including a LEGO camp and one focused on building things (like bridges out of tooth picks and play-doh and cool paper airplanes).  He's also a soccer player and swimmer, shares his brother's fixation on Angry Birds (they share a lot of things), loves loves LOVES to draw, and is going to run out of teeth at the rate he's losing them.

Steph (age withheld) spends every hour she can manage in her studio, which is unfortunately not nearly as many as she would like (raising two little boys will do that to you).  She continues to work almost exclusively in felted wool and show around the country, but has been developing a new body of sculpture over the past year or so that is similar to some of her previous work but significantly larger.  She conducts workshops intermittently around the Bay Area, and spent a week this summer teaching at Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts in Gatlinburg, Tennessee.  Steph also plays roller hockey 2 or 3 times a week in a few adult leagues (which actually started last year, but since there was no Christmas letter...) and regularly has the bruises to prove it.


Hayden is rapidly closing in on the big 4-0!  He still works as an engineer at Northrop Grumman and has been primarily on the same project for over 6 years now (in the Special Intelligence Operating Unit, which is... "special", I guess).  This year he also contributed to a few business development efforts (which means no one in the government is willing to pay for them yet) which was an interesting change of pace.  Hayden doesn't have to travel that often for work, but when he does he usually takes the opportunity to do something fun (like spending a day snowboarding after a conference in Utah) or visit friends and family (like seeing college friends outside DC or his sister Hilary in Allentown, which is also fun) along the way.  He plays on a couple different soccer teams, both indoor and outdoor, throughout the year.


And last but not least (well, actually she is least, which is why she's last and didn't make the Christmas card) Peekay turned 10 years old this year and is still going strong.  She doesn't get taken on walks anywhere close to as often as she did a few years ago, but some days I think she's perfectly OK with that.  She is continually mellowing in her old age, although the neighborhood squirrel population and the mailman would certainly disagree, and she enthusiastically provides slipper delivery service anywhere in the house (to Steph at least... I refuse to give the dog a treat for getting slobber on my slippers).


Our boys spent the first week of summer vacation with their grandparents in Phoenix (yes, you read that right, we shipped our children to Arizona in the summer, which might be viewed as child abuse in some states) and loved it.  While Mom was away teaching in Tennessee, Dad and the boys spent the week taking fun day trips to places like the Oakland ZooEmma Prusch Farm Park, and Berkeley Adventure Playground (if you don't know what that is check out the web site -- you will be amazed that such a place can still exist in modern America).  We spent the week of the 4th of July at Lake of the Pines with the Goetsch clan, and sandwiched a day in Legoland and a 3-day cruise from Los Angeles to Ensenada, Mexico around Thanksgiving with the Davisons in Newport Beach.  We'll end the year visiting Hayden's sister Hallie in Santa Fe for Christmas and Steph's sister Kim in Denver for New Years, and sprinkled throughout 2013 were numerous visits to Happy Hollow, the Children's Discovery Museum and the California Academy of Sciences.

We hope 2013 was kind to you and your family, and 2014 is better still.  Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!


Friday, March 26, 2010

Bath Rumble

After Alex's bath tonight Evan joined in for the bundling and drying phase, and the three of us got a bit tangled up in the process:



Chicken Wing

I can't for the life of me remember what prompted this, but after dinner tonight Evan came up behind Alex while Steph was holding him and started flapping his arms like a chicken:



Then he gave Alex a big hug (that actually isn't so unusual):


Alex didn't know what to make of any of it:

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

D Bunny

I don't remember if there was anything more going on here than Evan playing with D Bunny ("D" because his cousin Delaney gave it to him), but I like the picture a lot so I thought I'd share it:

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Visiting Terrapin

My best friend from college, Katy, came out to the Bay Area for a conference this week and she stayed with us for a few days afterwards. As is our way, we hardly turned the camera on the two days she was here, but we did take this one picture of her with Evan:


At least in the only picture we took he was wearing the Maryland shirt Katy brought for him (it's one of his new favorite shirts).

Obviously you can't tell from a single photo, but Evan had a great time having an extra person to play with around the house! Over the last few months he's become much more willing to interact with new people, and he took to Katy right away. He even requested she join in with our bedtime ritual of reading a story, saying what we did that day, and singing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. That was the first time either Steph or I can remember anyone who wasn't a family member or his regular babysitter participating in bedtime, let alone at his invitation.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Running Man

I know I've mentioned before how much Alex likes to kick his legs. Well, as you can see, he comes by it honestly:

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

More Car Lineup

Evan spends a fair amount of his time lining up cars in nice rows, so we have plenty of opportunities to take pictures of him doing it. These pictures start to become a bit repetitive, but he looks so cute we can't help ourselves:

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Take Your Bow

With all of the enthusiastic dancing Evan does he needs to learn to take a little credit for the entertainment he provides every once in a while:

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Potty Practice

We've been working on potty training Evan a little bit at a time over the last month or two. So far there are four main challenges we're facing:

  1. He is pretty unwilling to go pee in the potty unless we're changing his diaper anyway, at which point if he wasn't wearing a diaper it would already be far too late;
  2. He insists on standing up to pee, so the degree of difficulty is a little higher;
  3. He likes the idea of pull-ups and big boy underpants but resists even trying on either; and
  4. He vehemently refuses to even think about going poop in the potty.

The first three issues are all things we feel like we can make progress on, but on the fourth he's been quite recalcitrant. We now consider it a victory just to get him to sit on the potty even to read a story (which should be good practice for pooping, right?):

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Hard Hat

One of the really cool Christmas presents Evan got this year was a hard hat with a built-in microphone/loud speaker, headlamp, and flashing lights from his cousins. Only he didn't think it was that cool, or at least its scariness (he didn't much like its random "construction site" sounds) and awkwardness (he doesn't like hats to begin with, and this one is much heavier than any other hat he's ever worn) outweighed its coolness.

Recently, though, Evan has become so obsessed with Bob the Builder that he wanted to wear his hard hat, so we had to document the occasion:


It's still a challenge to get it to fit him well, but now instead of just walking away he keeps pestering me to adjust the sizing. Actually, I'm not sure this is better....